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my hero

At the age of 17 this guy joined Air-Force so as to support a family with 3 brothers and 3 sisters (This guy is the eldest brother). During Air-Force job he was posted at different places (Andaman islands at times). This guy was travelling sometimes with his family and sometimes alone to be in sync with his job.

In 1997 (After 15 years Air-force job), at the age of 32 he retired from Air-Force and came to Rajasthan and opened a small shop. The work was going good. He was able to get a good living. Also, All the brothers and sisters were married. Only responsibilities he had was a wife, a son and a daughter.

Due to personal issues, He was forced to leave that shop and shift to chandigarh where he again setup a small marble shop. After sometime when the work was stable, due to government policies the shop was demolished. A huge loss was done. But this guy has the stamina to stand up again and used to go home to home, societies to societies on his scooter selling polybags, bulb holders, plastic items to earn a living. His loving wife opened a small garment shop to earn a little more. Then they were able to save enough amount to open another marble shop at some other place. Good days were near but it happened again. The marble shop was demolished, leaving nothing for this guy.

This guy took a little loan from his friend and moved to gurgaon alone (leaving family in chandigarh for sometime), in search for work. He opened a shop again. This time it was in gurgaon. Then the entire family moved to gurgaon in a single room. A family with 4 members in a small room in Gurgaon. This time it was in partnership with a relative (who was himself in a bad situation, he even borrowed money to celebrate his son’s birthday because he was not having money for the same).But this 40 year old guy was still fighting for more.

A constant Hard Work and dedication did wonders. Today, at the age of 50, he is living in a Duplex Independent house in one of the top residential areas of gurgaon. He is one of the Haryana’s top sellers in his business domain. From negative amounts this guy came to this position where he can afford all luxuries that this family demands. His daughter is an MBA and son is pursuing engineering from IIT.

He is my inspiration, my super hero and I am his proud son.
December 20, 2014

every indian problem!

Hello.. Here is Shaheen F22 Jaipur.. I m in a big trouble.. 1stly apne baare me bata dun.. I m a muslim girl.. & my father he hve big repo n fam.. he is an administrativ officer.. I hv a boyfriend.. His nam Shubham.. n he frm another religion.. Mere dad ka bata dun vo kafi relogious typ k h.. In my fmly..kabhi kisi ne inter religion marrieg toh kya love mrg tak nhi ki.. Hamare reletivs m ladkio pr kafi boundetion lagai jati h bt mere Papa muje bht pyar karte h or dadu or sab reletivs se ladkr mujhe freedom m rakhte h… Mujhe padhne k liye bahar bheja jesi life mujhe chahiye thi vesi life mujhe di.. Jo pehnna chaha pehna.. Full on.. aish moj.. Iski vajah se mere sare reletivs papa se chidhte h… or unko hamesha mujhs or se problm hoti h.. Me bachpn se study n sports me 1st rahi hun.. jiski vajah se papa proud feel karte h.. Me sports m nationle gold medlist bhi hun.. Ab problm shuru hoti h yaha se.. School tym me mera ek friend tha.. Sameer.. & hum dono bchpn se besties h.. hum dono ek duare ko bachpn se hi like karte h bt akbhi usne b nhi bola na mene.. Aftr 3 n half year se hum dono commited h.. Vo har situation m mere sath deta h humesha support krta h.. Sar bad situation se mijhe nikala.. Perfect Lover h vo.. Hum dono m ldai b hoti h bt pyar bht h.. Hum dono physical relation m nhi the qk hum dono shadi k bad chahte the m.. Bt kuch time pehle hum physical b ho gaye.. Mere har sports compitetion me vo mere aath hota h.. Mera workout n prectis m meri help vo karta h.. Uski study m me uski help karti hun..uska sara college assinment me pura karti hun.. . Ab situation h k agr me use dekhu nhi ya bat nahi hoti toh m bht bechain ho jati hun.. Rondhu ho gayi hun..bss Usse ladai hote hi hath kat leti hu.. Vo b mujhe bht pyar karta h bht zyada… Hum dono bht possesive h.. Abi uski job lag gayi h.. Delhi Ab hum dono ko shadi karni h.. Sam:- bolta h k agr meri fmyl use eccept nhi karegi to vo religion chng kar lega.. Bt me agree nahi hun.. Kyuki uske b perents h…or vo to sba sikh gaya mere religion k bare m or me bhi.. Bt me ye b janti hu k mere papa kabhi hamari shadi k liye kabhi Razi nhi hongi.. kyuki mere reletives.. Joint family.. Bhai log.. Papa maan b gaye toh reletivs unhe jine nhi denge.. Me kya karu.. Samjh m nhi aata me bhagkar bhi shadi nhi kr sakti kyuki papa ne kabhi mjhe bound nhi kiya.. Kya karu koi mujhe batayega… Mera bhai pura hitler h..ek saal pehle bhai ne mujhe sameer se phon pr bat karte hue dekh liya tha mujhe bht mara b tha..or phon b tod diya tha.. Bt papa ki vajah se ab sab thik ho gaya.. Can you give me sme suggestion.. Bs mujhe Sam se shadi karni h..