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my reason of happiness gone

hi..i was in a superb relationship with my best friend he used to trust me a lot..we are in same office we spent our whole time with each other..before him i had a so called b.f from facebook with whom i went out for 2 days (first tym i dated someone) ..n my best frn proposed me after our outing with my so called bf.yesterday he asked everythng whtever happnd btwn me n my tht bf..n i told everythng to my bestie,..even no big things happened btwn me n my f.b- bf.but my bestie broke up with me as he never had a gf before me.he said i lied to him i didnt tell him these things..he asked me so many times but for sake of my relationship i used to tell him tht v went there as frns only nthng happnd btwn us like gf bf.however he jus hugged me n slept wd me on same bed but v didnt do anythng wrong.nothng big happnd not even a single kiss.my bestie got upset tht my fb bf put his hand around my waist on bed whn v wr talking lying on bed.my besties said how can i trust a fb guy like this n allow him to do all these thngs but its my past y he is being tht much serious whn m true wd him in future n present.how shud i get my bf back..need solution,,..

I can’t forget u

I really luv u more than the words could ever say..!
I met a guy on fb.. He texted me first.. I replied.. ! (My first mistake) .. We started talking.. We had shared secrets nd laughs , rainy nights nd sunny days..! I was in love..! We loved each other a lot.. ! We were so perfect together.. Until one fine day he wanted to break free.. ! He didn’t give me any explanation .. He just left.. ! And then.. I sat silently in daze for a moment..! Reality sank in nd i began to cry..!! He took away a part of me.. HIM.. ! I’m still confused whether he luvd me or not.. Whether i was just a time pass for him.. Or i had any special place in his heart.. ! He came into my life nd changed it forever…!!! He taught me everything.. About love , life , hope nd the long journey ahead.. ! He had always made me feel special in all that he had done.. Nd in all that he had said.. ! I will always miss him..! Boy.. I still love u with all my heart’s might.. Nd i’ll never forget u..!

m23

m 23 i have a gf. hmara relation kaafi achha chal rha h. bt ek baat h jo mujhse bardast nhi hoti. actually meri gf apne ex bf k sath bohat baar park gyi h (cheap park jaha couple kiss smooch kr rhe hote h). m is relation se pahle kabhi aise kisi park ya garden m nhi gya tha. first time meri gf hi mujhe lekr gyi thi. uske sath m 2,3 baar gya hu aise parks m. bt jab waha k scene dekhta hu to bohat jealous feel hota h ki meri gf bhi apne ex k sath yahi sab krti hogi. ab to maine uske sath park jana bhi chhod dia. m jab yaad krta hu ki meri gf apne x k sath park jaati thi, sach m aag lag jati h. pls guys suggest me what to do?

hurts

F,22

jdhpr

I lmw u read ds page..dts y writing it here…. I left me… said dt u hate me..bt still i dnt knw y.. I LUV U .. i committed many mistakes… hurt u many tyms.. bt dt dt ws bcz f immaturity .. u left me alone… blocked me frm everywhere.. do u really think dt if i’ll nt c ur pic dn i’ll frget u ??? m sry.. bt luv doesnt need pix etc.. u live in my heart dear.. & no one cn erase u .. i tried to hate u bcz of how much u insulted me.. said to me.. bt i really cnt..i cnt.. cz i still luv u vry mch.. more dn anything…i still pray fr u… i knw one day u’ll cum to me.. & will say u luv me.. i decided not to marry any1 now.. its nt dt i dnt believe any1 or aything lyk dt… its jst .. dt d ryts i had given u… d luv i feel fr u.. i cnt give it to anybody else evr in my lyf… u knw.. if sum1 wud guarantee me dt i cn spend only one day wd u… n aftr dt i have to die… i wud choose dt fr sure… i upload many pix & status jst to hide my feelings n to show dt m absolutly fyn.. bt deep inside i knw.. m nt.. m totally broken …since last 7 months i cry vry nyt & pray to god to get u back…i dnt knw… whether dese things mattr fr u or nt evn..somtyms i evn think of committing suicide bt dn think.. if i’ll die.. dn how wud i get to marry u … how will i tell u how much i really luv u…while writing ds m still crying…bt evry drop of my tear believes ,,.. u’ll come 1 day defently & u’ll say… “I LUV U MISHTI ” .. till dt day…i’ll wait fr u baby… i really luv u…. miss u lyk hell :'( bt still luv u …

f20

Hello friends f20 mujhe apse ek suggestion chaiye tha ….actually mera breakup hua tha feb me….me bahut dukhi hui thi roi b thi sabne yhi kha ki move on kar …..bahut mushkil se khudh ko smbhala ….wapis apni life start kri uske bina….aur dheere dheere sach me us ko yad krna kam ho gya….abhi kuch din pehle me ek ladke se bat krne lagi uske ane ke bad bahut fark pda…feel hua ki sayd me wapis pyar kr sakti hu….par ek feeling hai jo khtam nahi ho pa rhi mujhe mere ex ki har time chinta rehti hai….matlab me har time ye sure krti rehti hu ki kahin wo dukhi na ho…uski timeline check krti rehti hu….mana ki me move on kr rhi hu par ye feeling nahi khtam ho rhi ….me bas janna chati hu ki kaise me uski chinta karna band kru kaise use bilkul bhulu….┬ákuch smjh bhi nahi a rha…

Love in Friendship

Delhi
F22

Hey All,
2years back everything was good, i completed my 12th nd joined college, i met 2guys, let them named as X nd Y, we became good friends, slowly i got to know that X has a crush on me, nd Y started to help him to make me his gf, i was a girl who was not interested in relationships, i wanted to make friends, so i did. i made everything clear to X that i am not interested, but his affection soon turns into love, nd he didnt want to step back, even he said he will wait for me nd wants to marry me in future, i always took it in a funny way nd reacted like “chal na yr bakwas mt kr” “main marriage material nhi hoon” “mujhey nhi karni shadi or na relationship chahiye” “we are friends nd usse age meri side se kbhi kuch hoga bhi nahi”. Because of his affection towards me i was not too comfortable nd close to him as i was with Y. He(Y) was always way too better friend, caring, helpful, nd always there for me, he tried his best too to help his friend(X) nd tried to convince me, but i really didnt want to be in a relatnshp, time goes by nd our(mine nd Y’s) relation became even more deeper nd closer. Now, few days back my friend Y told me that he loves me, i didnt know how to react, i am very concerned about him, because he is a very honest person nd he is veryyyy depressed over the fact that he loves a girl whom his best friend(X) loves too. I saw many marks on his hands(tht shows he tried to harm himself) nd he almst cried in front of me, it was a weak moment for both of us nd we kissed. it was the very first time someone touched me that way, it happened all of the sudden. i didnt know how to react but later i text him regarding that moment. he too was guilty. i dont know how to handle this situation. At one side there is X who wants to marry me nd he is very serious about it, for me he is just a friend nd on the other hnd Y whom i am too close, he dont want any relation with me, he just want me with no title along by my side, bcz accrdng to him relatnships are ol abt sex, he thinks i deserve better than him, nd even now he asks me to say yes to X. i dont know what to do. please help.

hi everyone…..m female 21yrs

i was in a relationship fr abt 2 yrs,5 month ago we broke up because i dnt wnt to continue further so i stopped talking to him neither he tried frm his side after 5 months maine msg kia nd usne rpy kia tht he is happy ki m bck in his life kch dino baad he said ki woh filhal single nh h he is in a relationship i was shocked becoz i still have some feelings fr him…humari baat age badhi kch dino baad he said he wants me in his life frever as a frnd becoz he needs me so i was ok with it maine haan bola…kch dino baad usne bola ki usko lgta h uski gf cheat kr rhi h still he loves her i said ok continue kro usko woh b manjur nh usko lgta h age ja k phir dhoka de dia toh …the thing is usko meri advice chahie sirf jab b usko aise issues ho unke alawa mujhse koi aur topic discuss hi nh krta x gf ko gf(mujhe) bana dia usne sirf apne issues solve krne ki lie either woh selfish h or mai bewakuf….mujhe ky krna chahie ab uski madat kru ya ky jst help me suggest me

& wat abt dreams??

M 22 New Delhi

Its always tough moving on….same was for me…loved a girl, c didn’t feel dat way for me…tried to remain in her life as friends but it was not meant to be…and her behaviour also made me realize several times that i don’t matter much to her..i mean my existence in her ife. jab jarurat padti thi tbhi yaad aati thi meri warna bina kaam ke uske taraf se kbhi koi call ya msg shayad hi aaya ho….but love is love…it happens widout any reason and i was in love .
gradually hmare jhagde badhne lge and finally ek din aisa aa hi gya whn c said goodbye to me & that i don’t exist for her. i never contacted her after that and i tried to move on. isse pehle bhi kai baar mera mann krta tha ki main in sab chizon se nikal jaun kyuki most of d times i remained sad, mere mood swings hone lge the…usse ache se baat hui to mood sahi rha warna mood kharab..and ye mjhe acha nai lgta tha ki main kaisa feel kru iski chabi totally kisi aur ke paas hai. but pehle kbhi main usko chor ke move on nai kr paya tha…but is baar uski kuch baat aisi hurt kr gyi ki i decided ki ab chahe jo ho i will move on…and then i shifted to delhi and mjhe ek chng bhi mila and i did move on.
Life in delhi is not great coz i don’t hv frnds here and also am not able to give time to music bcoz of my studies, but its not bad either…m doing ok. What disturbd me actually are these dreams which i had last night and also few nights before dat. seeing her again in dreams kind of takes u a lil back and it feels strange when all those past memories start flashing in ur mind. i can control wat i think n wat i do when m awake but wat abt dreams? i hv no control over them…

i love him

f18
i dont know what is going on with my relationship. from past few months i am not able to handle this1.5 year relation. i broke up several time many girls like his pictures and comment i dont like it i fight with him that its doesnt happens on my id then why yours. he says i am very doubtful and has doubts on him. he never told me about his past and when i come to know that his ex gf or someone has liked his pic i get angry and fight with him a lot .
recently i broke up saying we dont have a future a we are from different castes and we aare not happy together. but then he adds unknown girls on his id and used to reply late to my texts. i fe agitated. and recently i just got furious and abused him and just said him to get lost . he just blocked me but i have always been there and helped him always. we are in a long distance relationship i dont know what to do i love him we got physical too. i do love him a lot but should i go back to him or should i move on ?
i have my exams going on i am crying like hell and cannot study i dont know what i should do.
please help me .