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misunderstanding

Im 22(female). I met him 3 years ago.he loves me a lot.. But due to some misunderstanding s we broke up..its always my mistake..he wants me not to tok to guys n i always talk..its been 4 months we broke up..n i miss him a lot..i cry whole night..i dont even feel like looking at other guys..he is my prince! I hv tried everything to mke him come bck in my life bt he says he want to make his career n do not want to waste his time on all this love n all. I always want to see him happy n bcoz me he is loosing in studies.. I decided to let him set free n let him make his career..bt its too difficult for me to stay away from him..i want him bck..wt do i do guys?

confused fb lover

I met a girl on fb but i got her no frm my classmate bcoz she called him n whn he came in class nxt day he told me wht happend last day. So i called her to ask who is she. Thn aftr few months i send her frnd request on fb that was my biggest mistake. Thn we start chatting on fb after few minutes i hv to go fr a work n thn she msg me on my no.1st thn we start texting. We talk each n every single minute. Aftr 3-4days she ask me tht i like her or love her. I was confused n thinking of it whn she forced me n i realise tht i m in love wid her i told her tht i m in love. I always tried to make her happy. 1 thing is we were in long distance relationship. I nvr forced her for anything. But her demands were rising. I ignored tht n tried to fulfill her all wishes. I trust her too much. I gave her my fb password also if i wanna cheat her thn why i gave her password. I checkd her phn whn we met. I show some chats with boys tht was un believalbe. But i ignored bcoz i luv her. She was having affair in her collage n she was datin thm also n she always tell lie but i believe her evry tym. But i luv her n believe her respect her. I gave her too much respect. Kbi b usse kch galat ni bola na kbi kch galat krne ka socha. Khayab tk ni aane diya….uske baare me kbi galat sunta b ni tha ladai kr baithta tha un logo se jo kch galat bol b dete the toh….usku job lgne k baad toh hadd hi hone lgi wo hmesha ldko se ghanto baate kene lgi mujhe ignore krne lgi…..mujhse hr baat pe ldai krne lgi pr tb b galat fahami me tha k she loves me…starting me hm dono ne ek dusre ko dekha tk ni tha aur ab usne kya bahane banane start kiye k meri shakal buri hai mai smart ni hu….haan maine kb usse kaha mai smart hu mai toh khud ko bura hi btata tha tb toh use achcha lgta tha toh ab kya hua……kbi mere saath puri lyf bitane ko tayaar thi pr aaj mujhse kahti hai meri shakal tk ni dekhna chahti….jb uske offce wale bf ne ditch kiya toh dubara mere paas aayi hi kyu….hmesha jhoot bolna toh jaise uski √†dat hai….mai hi pagal hu jo uske liye mare ja ra hu…..jb clg me tha mai usse milne k liye savings krta tha k jb milunga tb khrch krunga….kbi paise ni maange na kbi koi demand ki….bs uska saath hi toh chahta tha…she is my 1st love…uske alawa kis aur ldki k baare me socha tk ni…..uske liye toh mai bs ek khilona hu.samajh ni aata kya kru hr tym yaad aati rhti hai neend tk ni aati…..

LOVE IS BLIND

21M Nagpur hello everyone i have a friend she is gorgeous but having negative attitude she usually talk sometimes but she is just doing a formality I know that now she has so many boys in her life and she is in relationship with a Gym Instructor Its ok and doesnt matter Now story begins from here When i came to know that She was divorcee and having a girl 3 year old girl when i came to know about reason of Divorce i was totally shocked the reason was she left her husband because she was in relationship with Gym Instructor and after divorce she is secretly married to tht a**hole pervert gym instructor he is now spoiling her life but still as u know all LOVE IS BLIND she still love him .And the biggest shocking thing i came to know that she is 27 years old 12th pass and now she is working as an Escort .I feel initially very bad about divorce but when i came know the reason of divorcé i was confused although when we met we used to enjoy she is nice friend guys please tell should i continue friendship or i leave her .Some of u will abuse me but please suggest me P.S-I m not in love with her and dont have crush we r just only friends

i m in love

F22 Middle fmly se belong krti hu,5year ago ek ladke se fb m frnshp hui,650km door rhta h,dekhne m smart h and air force m job krta h,one year eldr h mujhse. Hamne number exchange kiye or fon pe bat krne lage,fmly prblm ki wajah se mai sirf rat m bat krti thi chup chip ke,starting ke two year tak mujhe love ho gya or sayad use ni pyar ho gya..na usne kabhi kaha na maine, ham continue bat ni krte kbhi kbhi krte the..usne meri pic mangi maine dia per use mai bahot dubli lagi.ek din rat m usne call kia 2bje or mera waiting call btaya,(mummy eldr sis se bat ker rhi thi delivery k silsile m),bs fir usne kaha baat nhi karna ab..fir 2sal bat ni hui. 1year ago maine nya mobile liya or whatsapp use krne lagi,usko msg kia to usne pehchan liya,or pic meri mangi usne to dia maine, use achi lagi mai fir video call kiya or bat fir se hone lagi but thodi bahot,or mai truly love krti hu use..or ab wo sirf video call krke mujhe dekh leta h.bt btaya ni ajtak ki luv krta h ki ni..or Maine bi ni btaya,or ab 5year ho gye total meri shadi bhi kr sakte h ghar wale toh kya usse btana chahiye ki I am love wid you. plz suggestions for me….!!

m23

m 23 i have a gf. hmara relation kaafi achha chal rha h. bt ek baat h jo mujhse bardast nhi hoti. actually meri gf apne ex bf k sath bohat baar park gyi h (cheap park jaha couple kiss smooch kr rhe hote h). m is relation se pahle kabhi aise kisi park ya garden m nhi gya tha. first time meri gf hi mujhe lekr gyi thi. uske sath m 2,3 baar gya hu aise parks m. bt jab waha k scene dekhta hu to bohat jealous feel hota h ki meri gf bhi apne ex k sath yahi sab krti hogi. ab to maine uske sath park jana bhi chhod dia. m jab yaad krta hu ki meri gf apne x k sath park jaati thi, sach m aag lag jati h. pls guys suggest me what to do?

Want serious advises

I am in a reltnship wid a guy since 5 yrs we were happy togthr we decided to marry he talked abt dis wid his famly 3 yrs bck bt his mom n sis was totally against me dueto intercaste so there were disputes among us bt ee continued our reltnship famly doesnt know abt it we tok to each other ,. He is not completely settle he needs some more time to bcum financially sound aftdat we hve decide to marry but know since 1 yr his behaviour has chnged he doest give me tym he is olways busy i hve tolked to him so many tyms dat y dont u give me time he says dat he want to concentrate in work to get settle so dat he can marry mee and live independently i hve fought wid him so many tyms to give tym n tok to me but he gives priority to work first and gym he blames me dat i dnt understand him i m imature.. I cry so much i just want u as u were ealrler but he is chnged he doesnt care i m crying or wat he is just busy in his whole world pls suggest mee wat shuld i do bcos i cant live without talking to him n we r in longdistance reltnship advise pls ??

missing my love

Hii…i wanna confess something…..or please give me genuine suggestions…..kisi ne abuse kiya to….sun lo maine gaaliyo mein p.h.d ki huyi hai…..ye sb chodo…baat thodi serious hai…i was in relationship wid a girl who is 5 years younger than me…..i noe her when she was 12…bt now she is 21….or meri age to tum nikal hi logey….bahut baar try krne pr vo ready ho gyee friendship ke liye…..or fir hum relationship mein bhi aa gye….post thodi lambi hai….dhyaan se read kr ke suggestions dena please….hamesha kucch na kucch maangti rehti thi….kbhi recharge krva do…..kbhi perfume la do kbhi kucch kbhi kucch…..bt maine kbhi dhyaan hi ni diya…mjhe to bs ye tha ki jisey itne din se chaha vo mil gyee….bht khush tha main….har roz usey uske coleg se pic kr ke fbd se delhi le jaa kr Giani’s se fruit sundae khilata tha…..bt uska ek friend tha koi jiske baare mein vo mere aage gaane gaati rehti thi…..whatsapp pr hamesha usi behc**d ke liye status daalti thi….mjhe gussa aata tha…bolti thi ki mere dil ke do part hai ek tum or ek vo uska friend… or bhi bht kucch kiya uske liye….usne bola ki family ko financially problem hai….uski fee jaani thi jo ki nov. mein jani hai 1.5 around…..vo bhi dene ko agree tha main….uskr baday pr bhi usko sb se pehle wish kiya……cake order kiya …party orgnise ki…bt vo apne friends ke sath busy rahi koi phone ni aaya…online ho kr bhi msg ni krti thi….maine gussey mein suna diya usey to ab naraaz hai…..bolti hai ki ab main friend hi rahungi bs relationship mein ni rehna…..shaadi tk ka soch chuke they….bt ab sb kuch khatam ho gya na main baat krta hu na vo…..koi ladki hi btaye ki kya ho skta hai uske dil mein…ek baar sunane pr hi bura maan gyee….bht yaad aati hai uski…darta hu ki kahi gussey mein kucch kar na baithu….suggest me something…ki what can i fo fr bring her back….

Introvert

M such an introvert that m unable to express myself most of the times, especially negative feelings. I cant express reasons behind my sadness, my love or care for someone, my insecurities, my problems, even to people who are close to me and whom i trust…….it creates a lot of difficulties for me. Actually i dont want to present myself as ‘bechari’. I know dis is wrong. But i just cant help it. Whenever i am in a problem, something keeps killing me from inside since m unable to share it with anyone. Also i lost my love in an accident some years ago, dis made me losing faith in god too. I really need some counseling…
Female, 22 yrs

Help

M 20,Mumbai
I’m a guy of simple taste with not many demands frm parents…but quite frustrated… Can’t concentrate on my engineering ryt now….i repeated to get a good college but still not happy…failing subjects… Parents r fed up with me….mum always says get ouuta the house…I feel like I’m the worst son ever born…feel stuck..on toppa that I’m madly in love with a girl since 7 years could never gather the courage to tell her…pls help…m not a bad person