I was in a relationship for 12 years. I told her I’d only talk to her if she took her mom’s permission. I did this to make sure she wasn’t with me just for my looks and was serious about us. From day one, my intention was to marry her. In the beginning, she seemed okay with it. But as the years passed, whenever I asked her if she was happy, she would always say yes. A few years later, we had a fight.
That’s when she suddenly told me her father wouldn’t accept me because I didn’t earn enough money and that I needed a certain amount in my account. She gave three reasons for breaking up: I didn’t earn enough, I fought too much, and I refused to move with her to Canada, saying long distance relationships don’t work. All this came after we had been together for four years!
She left me that day, and I still don’t know the real reason. In 2022, she moved to Canada. Like a fool, I followed her because I had promised we would always work things out and never leave each other. I came to Canada for her, and for a while, we were back together. But a year later, she dumped me AGAIN. This time, she said I was the problem, claiming that I made her feel like I kept count of everything I did for her.
Tell me, what am I supposed to do when someone asks, “What have you ever done for me?” or “Do you even love me?” I left everything behind just to be with her, only for her to turn around and say I wasn’t good enough. She broke my trust so many times, but I never betrayed her not even once. And yet, here I am, the one left behind. Why am I always the one who gets dumped? Why am I always the one blamed for reasons that don’t even make sense?
I constantly asked her if she was happy and if there were any problems. Why can’t people just talk and sort things out instead of ending it like the relationship never even existed? Now we’re back to being strangers (her choice, not mine), and here I am still waiting like a fool. Why can’t I get proper closure? Let me give you one tip for people like me: NEVER make the foolish mistake of waiting around!