I was going through a rough phase in life for the last two years, regarding my job and career. I even had a rough breakup with my toxic ex, who dumped me due to unresolved misunderstandings. Then, one day, I went to a social gathering where I met this young girl who caught my eye at the very first instance. At first, we just started talking casually, exchanged numbers, and frequently chatted.
Then, after some months, we started seeing each other again at certain events, with our group of friends also accompanying us. Slowly, I started developing feelings for her. At the same time, my professional life also began improving with my new job, making my family very happy. I personally thought it was all because of her maybe she came into my life as a “lucky charm” after my recent setbacks.
Then, one fine day, I finally decided to express my feelings to her. When I first told her about it via chat, she seemed a little surprised, as she didn’t understand what I found so special about her. Later on, we agreed to go on our first date, and trust me, it was the best day of both our lives since we truly got to know each other that day. Everything was going fine however, in the middle of all this, I also got to know another side of her.
She actually has her own Only Fans account, where she sells provocative pictures and earns a lot of money. When I directly confronted her about it, she told me that she had a traumatic past of bullying and abuse, where men from her previous relationships treated her very badly. At one point, she even went for random hookups just to feel loved, she said. At first, I was astonished when I heard about her past.
But later on, I calmed myself and decided to analyze the whole situation with an open mind. Instead of overreacting and judging her based on her activities, I just asked her whether she would continue with her OF page despite being in a relationship with me or not. She simply replied that it would actually be very difficult for her to leave this “profession” so soon. However, in the long run, she is definitely going to leave it behind and focus on her new life with me.
Just like me, she also wants our newly established relationship to become a long term commitment, but she doesn’t want her private life to affect it in any way mainly because she faced hatred previously from one of her exes regarding this issue. In the end, since I am an open minded and soft spoken person, I decided to stay by her side. After all, whoever she is, she will remain “special” to me. She came into my life at a time when I was at my lowest.
Yes, I am definitely worried about her OF account; that’s why we have even kept our relationship private from others. I don’t know what lies in our future, but I hope things get better for both of us.
Question: Tell me your honest opinion about my story. Have I done the right thing accepting such a person in my life?
Option 1: Yes, you accepted her, despite whatever she is
Option 2: No, she is not meant for you