I met a girl on a dating app in March. At first, I wasn’t sure, but she said she fell in love with me on the first day of chatting. I didn’t believe her and suggested we start as friends, but she wasn’t willing. I moved her from the dating app to social media, hoping to continue the friendship. However, she kept pushing for a relationship and kept saying, “I love you, please accept this.” After having a call with her on social media, we realized we had similar interests.
I agreed to give the relationship a try, and things went well initially. However, in May, she started behaving differently, which made me feel insecure and anxious. In a moment of anger, I suggested breaking up, and she agreed, blocking me everywhere. I felt very alone and depressed. I made efforts through friends to reconnect with her, and she came back after a week, saying she loved me and couldn’t live without me. Although it felt strange that she realized her feelings only after a week, I forgave her and we resumed our relationship.
We decided to meet in person, and she told me she was moving to another state for a job, which was shocking since she had just joined the organization a month earlier. It felt like an excuse to end things. When I reached home, I messaged her and she confirmed she was moving in August, which left me feeling heartbroken. In anger, I confronted her about her choice, and she decided to break up with me again and blocked me.
Now I’ve discovered that she didn’t move at all and is still in the same city as me, and her organization doesn’t have branches in other states. I feel betrayed and wonder what my fault was. She started the relationship, pressured me into it, and then broke me. I’m trying to move on and accept what happened. My advice to everyone is never enter a relationship out of pity or mercy.
Awesome.