Hey everyone, I’m a recent graduate preparing for my postgraduate entrance exams, which are coming up soon. But there’s something weighing on me more than the exams marriage proposals have already started coming in for me. My parents are saying no to them for now, but they want me married by the end of next year, while I’d rather wait at least five more years. Honestly, the thought of marriage stresses me out. I keep thinking about what marriage life will be like, especially when I think about my future wife. My mind starts racing with questions.
Is she going to be beautiful? Understanding? And then the worst thought hit me what if she’s had relationships in the past? I’ve never had a relationship myself. I always believed that true love happens only once, and I’ve seen too many failed relationships to even try. Plus, my parents always warned me they’d disown me if I got involved with someone before marriage. This idea that my future wife might have had a past relationship has been stressing me out for eight long months. It’s gotten so bad that I can’t even sleep or focus on my studies.
I’m constantly on Quora and other websites, searching for answers. Can a marriage between a guy with no relationship experience and a girl who’s had past relationships really work? Will she be loyal? And the biggest question will she even be honest about her past? My mom made it worse by casually saying that nowadays, it’s common for girls to have relationships before marriage. That statement shook me to the core, and I didn’t know how to respond.
So I’m asking you all what should I do? Should I be worried about this? Will I ever find someone like me, or do I need to accept that my future wife might have a past? Please give me your thoughts!