I met a guy through a matrimony app. I live abroad, and he’s based in India. We started talking on Instagram and chatted for about a month before I planned a trip to India. We agreed to meet in person during my visit. With my limited time there, we found 3-4 days that worked for both of us, and finally decided to meet on the day of my flight back.
I had the whole day free, but he was tied up in the morning. We decided to meet in the afternoon. However, on that very day, he texted to say he couldn’t make it because some relatives were visiting and he had to be with them. I asked if he could spare just an hour, especially since I wasn’t feeling well and had a long flight ahead. Meeting him was a priority for me, but despite knowing it was my last day in India, he didn’t make any effort.
This is the same person who, during our chats, claimed he could do “anything” for me, and I genuinely believed he was understanding and respectful. Meeting a prospective bride seems like such an important thing, but his actions didn’t reflect that. Should I even consider continuing this? His behavior really left me upset. What do you think I should do?
You travelled from the other side for the sake of this guy. And he couldn’t even travel for you a few kms?
Why think about such guy?
Better forget and move on.