I’m a 27 years old male, and I have a female best friend, also 27, whom I’ve been close to for about 10 years, especially since the COVID-19 pandemic. We’ve been through alot together ups and downs, different phases of life. We don’t have a history of dating, but there were times when we liked each other (though never at the same time). We decided not to pursue anything romantic to avoid ruining our friendship.
Last year, I got into a serious relationship with my girlfriend, and we’re set to get married. The issue began last year when my best friend casually sent me a close-up picture of her lips not in a sexual way, but to show some
scars from an accident. This really upset my girlfriend, who questioned why my best friend would send something like that, knowing I’m in a relationship. I managed to handle the situation then, but six months ago, the topic resurfaced.
My girlfriend didn’t want my best friend at our wedding, which led to another fight. (I understand my girlfriend’s perspective.)
For the past two months, my girlfriend has been repeatedly asking me to cut off all ties with my best friend. I haven’t properly talked to my best friend since last year, and there’s a lot of distance between us now. This situation has led to more fights and arguments, bringing out my girlfriend’s insecurities. She even gave me an ultimatum either choose her or my best friend, and she’s ready to call off the marriage if I don’t comply.
I’m very confused and don’t know how to navigate this situation. What should I do?
dare her to call off the marriage. people come in middle and try to ruin the relations from years. she might be in love. but such level of insecurity.
u might end things with ur best friend. what if ur gf has the same insecurity with others which might create problems in the future.
if she’s an ideal partner she will understand u or try to change herself.
but if the same continues u might lose a good friend and regret for a lifetime
make a wise decision