I’m a young woman in my 20s. A boy who was a stranger during my school days became a close friend while I was pursuing my graduation. He initiated contact through text, and over time, we grew closer. We both developed feelings for each other, and eventually, we started a relationship. We were open about our relationship and future plans, including marriage, despite being from different castes. We wanted our parents to understand and accept our relationship.
Everything seemed to be going smoothly until, three months later, I faced several family problems, including issues with my siblings relationships and my parents’ health. My father was particularly concerned about a sensitive family matter. I tried to reassure him, but I couldn’t share the details as they were personal and confidential. Although I deeply loved my partner, I couldn’t provide him with the reassurance he sought due to my family’s situation.
Around the same time, my partner wasn’t feeling well, but he didn’t disclose what was wrong. I repeatedly asked him, but he remained tight-lipped. I was devastated and cried profusely, feeling helpless and alone.
Two months later, I reached out to him, apologizing for my behavior during that time. He then revealed that he had undergone surgery. I was overcome with emotion and cried for a week, regretting not being there for him during such a difficult time. I tried to explain my actions, but he felt I had breached his trust. I acknowledged my mistake, explaining that I had been unsure about what to share, especially early in our relationship. I thought our conversation would clear the air, but he proposed a condition for us to move forward: he would give me another chance, but I had to promise not to contact him until I secured a government job. We agreed to meet at the railway station on his return, where I would have the opportunity to express my feelings.
When we met, I saw the same warm smile on his face that I had fallen in love with. However, he made it clear that although he still loved me, he would maintain a neutral stance and not engage in any further romantic interactions. He also stated that he would eventually marry someone chosen and accepted by his parents.
My dilemma is whether he genuinely intends to give me another chance and wait for me until I secure a government job, or if he’s simply trying to placate me.
Question:
Does he really want to give me a chance?
Option 1: Will he wait until I secure a government job?
Option 2: Help me out with this dilemma.