I’m 31 years old, and I met a guy through a matrimony site. After two months, we got into a relationship, and since both our families were involved, I trusted him. He often brought up getting physical, and eventually, I gave in, believing our bond was meaningful. But soon after, a small argument led to him ignoring me for eight days.
When we spoke again, I convinced myself that I had overreacted and decided to move forward.
In August, we met again and decided to get married this year. I never imagined he could betray me, but things started to feel off. He once came to visit but left without meeting, citing work pressure. During New Year’s, my instincts told me something wasn’t right. While he was distracted, I checked his phone and saw messages from another woman, proving he had been physically involved with her and even promised to marry her.
When I confronted him, he denied it and physically restrained me to take his phone. Later, I found he was texting another woman too. Days later, he called, apologizing and asking for a second chance. My family had already started planning our wedding, but now I feel lost. My brain knows I shouldn’t go back to him, but my heart struggles to accept his betrayal. What should I do?
when u saw all the things he did and is doing why do u still wanna marry such a person
what if he hooks up with someone else after u get married to him
he ignored u when he was having fun with others
and might’ve come back when he has nobody for it
think before u do anything
don’t ruin ur life for the sake of family