I’m 21 (F). I’m in a relationship since 3 years now and from last 6 months we are in a long distance relationship. Since I’ve shifted to my home town after completing graduation. Before long distance, few months we had some tensions between us. Because he got in some financial problems and I being supportive. I supported him a lot but the problm has still not solved and I too have some limits. Now it has just made me irritated, his family doesn’t help with anything.
After long distance, I dont know if it’s because of the distance or me ignoring. The hints that before were shown I’ve slowly started realising that we belong from two very different worlds and he has very different mind set. He’s a simple person not much going with the trend types. I’m going with the trend person and he’s little stereotypical. Now that I get my time, I started to realise what type of qualities I need in a man. I want and what type of mindset I truly want, but I cannot leave him because no doubt he loves me like total obsessed and only has eyes on me and only cares about me.
But I don’t feel the same now and I feel like he’s not upto my standards and type. We even differ in terms of status and family. I feel I can explore a lot now and not just settle to one person because I’ve a lot of life left and I also don’t want to give fake expectations to the boy. Please tell me what I should do? He loves me a lot but he doesn’t know how the relationships works nowadays. He’s from south india and typical person and I’m from north india so the mindset differs a lot. I like to be the dumb one in the relationship and the guy be the dominant one but here it’s different.
Please suggest what to do?