I’m dating a guy I’ve known since childhood, and we’ve been together for two years now. Before sharing my story, I’d like to mention that I’ve been in a long-term relationship in the past, but unfortunately, it didn’t work out. After some time, I got into my current relationship with my present partner.
Everything was going really well until I found out about his past. He used to text multiple women, flirt with almost anyone, and engage in casual relationships. At first, I was a bit shattered, but I decided to let it go, thinking it was all in his past. However, I later discovered that he had also had one-night stands and even visited prostitutes, which completely broke my heart. Since then, I’ve been unable to trust him.
To make matters worse, he kept all of this hidden from me. He didn’t want me to know, so I ended up digging into his past myself and uncovering everything.
He always tried to maintain a clean image of himself, and I honestly had no idea about any of this before getting into the relationship. One day, I also found that he had been watching semi-naked videos on social media and realized he was a porn addict. He used to watch a lot of porn videos, and it was really unsettling for me.
Most disturbingly, one day, I discovered on his social media that he had searched for a prostitute’s account. When I confronted him, he claimed it wasn’t him but his friend who had searched for it. He also assured me that he had stopped watching porn videos altogether, but I don’t know what to believe anymore.
I feel shattered and broken, and my trust in him is completely shaken. I’m deeply attached to him and love him, but I find it incredibly hard to accept his past and his actions. After my first relationship ended, I had high hopes that this one would work out, but now I feel stuck. I feel bad for myself and don’t know what to do.
what’s there to think after knowing about him
u wanna get into more worse situations?
better move on and stay single than get cheated