I was 26 years old female, and till then, I had never dated anyone. After a long time, I reconnected with a school friend. We were really good friends back then! He told me he was into business, and I shared that I was working. We started talking regularly, almost 24/7. A few months later, he asked me to marry him. Since I liked him, we began dating. However, after just a month, he started behaving oddly. He planted doubts against me, picked fights, and blamed me for his actions. He even called me toxic for no reason and drained me emotionally. To make matters worse, he would abuse me without any justification.
A few days later, I discovered that he was using me for money and didn’t actually have any business. He had been lying to me from the very beginning and cheating on me with 7-8 other girls. Since I wasn’t providing anything sexual to him, he wanted to get rid of me by making it seem like I was the problem. I overheard him telling his friend that I was “toxic.” He even called my friends and cried to them, trying to paint me as a horrible person, but thankfully, they didn’t believe him. Later, I found out that he was promising marriage to other girls while using them sexually, all while dating me.
One day, during a fight in a restaurant, he told me he was breaking up with me. Furious, I contacted the other girls he was dating, exposed his true character with all the evidence I had, and slapped that bastard 4-5 times before asking him to fuck off from my life. He then started apologizing and begging me to take him back. This time, I met his family, exposed his behavior in front of his parents, siblings, and cousins, and threatened to lodge a police complaint if he ever contacted me or tried using any other girls again. I gave him a tight slap in front of his family and walked away.
I never trusted anyone apart from him, and he disrespected and humiliated me. Now, I have serious trust issues. I can’t get close to anyone and have been unable to marry. I’m 30 now, and the trauma he gave me still lingers. How should I start rebuilding trust now? Please suggest.
trust depends on self. once got cheated by someone nly leads to not trusting another person in future. but not getting married, staying single and ruining life isn’t and option. try spending time with close ones and get out of the trauma so u could have a better life.
he used u, lost u bt might be enjoying with others now. ur the one staying single without any happiness. why suffer for such person
take a decision for urself
hope this helps