I feel like I’m trapped in my marriage. I’m not sure if I love my husband or not. Although we had a love marriage after being in a relationship for six years, I feel his efforts were great in the initial years but then faded away.
As the time of marriage came closer, I had a strong gut feeling that I was making a mistake by marrying him. But I couldn’t do anything because I was the one who had convinced my family that I wanted to marry him.
Now, after marriage, he doesn’t give me money for anything. I was working, but I had to quit after giving birth to our baby. If I need to buy something, he won’t help, and I have to manage everything on my own. He doesn’t even feel guilty about not contributing financially. Although he’s a good husband in other ways, when it comes to the financial part, he’s not.
I am trying my best to be with him during his hard phase of life, but sometimes I get irritated and wonder why I have to do all this. I end up speaking badly to him, which makes him upset, and then I feel upset too.
Please don’t be judgmental as it’s already hard for me. I’m just looking for some suggestions…
try speaking to him instead of speaking something bad and make ur relationship worse. u said he’s a good man. he might be understanding ur situation.
don’t take suggestions of some people who might tell u to get seperated. cause the babys future will be a prblm
dats nothing much
bt hope it helps
hope everything gets fine