Confession of Uma meeting a Guy through Mutual Connections

I met a guy through a mutual friend. We started talking regularly via texts since he was living away due to work commitments. Over time, I thought he was a good person, and we vibed well together. This led to me developing feelings for him. I confessed my feelings, but he never gave me a proper response. He always told me he needed time to think about it, but his behavior made me feel like he really needed me (even though it was fake). I agreed to give him time and never forced it further.

He started asking me to buy him whatever he liked. Initially, as a good friend, I got him whatever he demanded, which day by day increased (of course, out of stupidity). Later on, he told me he was starting to develop feelings for me but still wasn’t sure. The actual trigger came when he started meeting me. He would never use his phone in front of me and always preferred to use mine for ordering.

He never paid for anything when we went out, always acted broke, though he was earning well. I had never forced him to love me and always told him I would move away if he wasn’t interested, but he made me wait and expected me to stay. As days passed, my doubts started turning into reality. By the grace of God, I started getting some evidence against him, which he sent unknowingly. He eventually got caught, but I kept it to myself for a few days because I didn’t want to make any rash decisions.

However, things got worse when I found out he had been dating a girl for years. I somehow contacted his girlfriend and informed her about him. The disgusting part was when his girlfriend confronted him, he admitted that he was talking to a few other girls as well. The funny thing is, she told me to inform his parents about his cheap behavior since they were about to get married. She asked me to just tell them, and she would handle the rest. Later, she informed me that his parents found out, and she wouldn’t continue with him. She was confused and told me not to talk to his parents or her anymore, and then she blocked me.

Guess what happened next? They got married a few months later. I tried to save that girl from such a cheater, but she probably changed her mind since they were about to get married. In the end, I felt like a fool for wasting my energy on these people. Neither his parents nor her family ever contacted me to ask what exactly happened. I didn’t care anymore after I saw their true faces. I left it to karma. This incident took a toll on my mental health, and I’m still going through it. I’m doing my best to move on Hopefully, one day, I’ll be fine.