Confession of Unmarried Girl At The Age of 35

I am a 35-year-old woman, unmarried because I didn’t like any men, and soon I became 35. By 35, there are not many prospects one would like, nor do you have any interest left in marrying. Truth is, I never felt an emotional connection to men, though I like the physical aspects. I feel emotional intimacy with women more. I was never a woman of values and ethics, and I never planned to marry. Dated many guys and still date. I look good and am very skilled in bed.

So, back to the highlight of my year 2024. I had a one-night stand with a 32-year-old guy at work. He started pestering me to sleep with him again and again, but I didn’t like him much in bed, and he was getting too personal, which felt weird. So, I decided to stalk this guy on Facebook, and there were pictures with his wife and a kid. I felt a weird knot in my stomach. I don’t mind a one-night stand, but I slept with him like 5-6 times, and he never mentioned it—not during dates or shopping trips.

So, I contacted this woman because I like drama (sorry, I am immature and evil). The wife was like, “I know it; you can have him if you want.” I already liked this woman. She had given up on her husband and said he always messages women and sleeps around. She wanted a divorce, but she was a housewife with not many means to care for her child and herself. I talked with the wife for a month, and I didn’t sleep with the guy, giving some different reasons. I had told this story to one of my friends who is a lawyer, and she gave me the number of a good divorce lawyer who said she had a really solid case.

To make the case stronger, we used to meet for a few months, got proofs for jewelry she gave to him (as per law apparently it counts as dowry), told her to be extra nice to her child so she gets custody. And to make it more airtight, I went on a couple of dates with him and took him to a hotel and got a few pictures. To make it airtight, I hugged him in restaurants with CCTVs, sent a few explicit text messages.

Anyway, I left the job and joined a new one because I knew this might blow up on me. Fortunately, nothing happened. A lot of things happened between him and his wife in arbitration, and she said if I could come during the trial if it happens. Anyway, the trial didn’t happen. He was forced to give alimony, maintenance, child support-which was substantial-with joint custody.

Apart from cheating, he took dowry because of which he didn’t want to go to court. All closed in 2-3 months, and I got some share of that money, which was sizeable. I felt I did something good. It was a hell of a ride, felt like I was the star of a movie. Career-wise, also doing good and would soon be moving abroad for higher education at one of the Ivy’s. Still in contact with my girl with whom I pulled this off.

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