Hi guys, I was in a relationship with a man 6 years older to me, was genuinely committed towards him, but I had my boundaries set for physical intimacy and never allowed sex (except kissing & caressing). However a year later, he cheated on me and started liking someone else. I chose to forgive and walk away.
It took me quite a lot of time to get over whatever happened. 6 years has passed by, and he is in a relationship with the same girl whom he started liking.
However he still tries to contact me, saying how he vividly remembers the past, and is still not over it. Every time he calls, he keeps on talking about how he miss everything we had together and long to touch & see me. Its been six years but he still remembers all the beauty spots on my body and gets horny while talking to me.
He talks about how he’d still be with me if his present girlfriend wasn’t there. But on the other hand, he says he trust me and gets so comfortable talking to the point where he shares about his personal intimate life with his present girlfriend.
(His present girlfriend does not like him being in contact with his past gf’s, but he says he takes risk just to talk to me.)
All of this takes me back to the past, wanting to keep contact with him at times but then it hits me with so much of pain and anger towards him for everything that he put me through.
It’s confusing!
Would appreciate any kind of advice or suggestions.