I’m 28 years old and recently got a match through a marriage bureau. There was an instant positive vibe, so I said yes from my side, and even they liked me. We only needed one more meeting to finalize everything. However, my ex somehow got involved, spoke to the person I was matched with, and ruined the entire proposal. Now, the match doesn’t want to move forward.
It’s been two months, but I still can’t get over this arranged match. I feel a deep sense of regret, as I think my actions indirectly spoiled it. After two years of searching for the right person, this was the first match I genuinely liked. I had already imagined my life with him.
I even tried reaching out to him to clear things up, but he simply said he discussed it with his family, and they’ve decided not to proceed. I feel stuck on this person, and even when I come across better matches, I’m unable to move on. What should I do?