Why Are “Normal” Guys So Hard to Find These Days?

I’m a 29 years old woman, and lately, I’ve been feeling like the dating scene has become a complete circus. Seriously, where did all the “normal” guys go? For context, I’m pretty laid back and enjoy life’s simple pleasures. I’m not asking for a fairy tale just someone who can engage in a real conversation, is emotionally mature, and doesn’t disappear after a few great dates (is that asking too much?).

A bit about me: I love trying new restaurants, binging true crime documentaries, and I have a serious thing for dogs (if you have one, we’ll probably hit it off). I’m career focused but cherish my downtime and its all about a balanced life. I’ve tried the usual dating apps and, while I’ve met a few decent guys, most seem to be either looking for something way too casual or are just plain unreliable.

Has anyone else experienced this? Or am I just overreacting? I’d love to hear your stories and any advice you have for navigating dating in your late 20’s. And seriously, if there are any decent guys out there who aren’t scared of commitment, where on earth are you hiding?! Can’t wait to hear your thoughts!

1 thought on “Why Are “Normal” Guys So Hard to Find These Days?”

  1. I too feel the same. Where are the good people left off. Can we connect to know each other ..

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