Hello everyone, I want to share something. I was in a relationship with a guy for the past 8 years. We came from different backgrounds. I’m from a middle-class family, and he’s from an elite high-class background. He was a very nice man, and I still love him. He never treated me badly. But for the past 2 years, he started ignoring me. Whenever I complained about it, he acted as if I was trying to make him feel guilty.
He would behave like I was lucky to be with him because of his rich background. In those 8 years, I never accepted a single gift from him-I just wanted his time and attention. But because of his behavior, I decided to break up with him.
Last month, I got in touch with someone who is 7 years older than me. We connected on LinkedIn. I’ve never met such an amazing person-he’s so understanding. In just 3 days, we bonded deeply. Before we started talking, we both made it clear that this wouldn’t turn into a relationship, and he was okay with that. We used to talk a lot.
However, my trust issues and insecurities from my past relationship created problems in this bond. This man is trustworthy, but I wasn’t able to treat him fairly. Unintentionally, I ended up hurting him, just like I was hurt in my previous relationship.
We don’t talk anymore, but he’s still in my contacts. He’s the best person I’ve ever met, and I don’t want to lose this friendship. I really need help to fix this.
the way u felt when u wer ignored or hurt by ur ex is the same the guy will feel when u ignore him. u might know the pain. then why give dat pain to someone u liked.
people often ignore the ones who love them and think about the ones who ignore or dnt care
u better make things right if u dnt wanna lose him
It’s your fear which has made you talk to him rudely forget your past and don’t commit the same mistakes again and focus on your present and make your future better and why don’t you marry this person