I’m a 23 years old woman, and I was in a relationship with a 23-year-old man for two years. I met my current boyfriend through my ex, who was a friend of his. I had proposed to my ex, but after a couple of months, he suddenly cut me off and said he didn’t want me anymore. After that, my current boyfriend helped me heal since I didn’t have any close friends at the time.
A few months later, I grew close to him, and eventually, he proposed to me. At that time, we were still close friends, and he promised me he wouldn’t leave me. He also asked me not to share my past with any of our friends. His love and care helped me heal, and we were together for eight months before circumstances forced us into a long-distance relationship. Throughout, I felt like we were soulmates, and he was always affectionate and supportive.
However, one day, he told me that he couldn’t marry me and wanted to keep me in his life only as a friend, which I didn’t agree with. After that, he began avoiding me. His mother knew about me, but only informally. When I spoke with her, she became upset with him and told him not to come home anymore. Since then, he’s treated me as if I don’t exist. I apologized to him in person, but he told me he couldn’t give me another chance. Finally, I asked him for closure and requested him to say goodbye, but he said he couldn’t make any decision right now.
A few days later, I discovered that he had shared some of my past secrets with our friends, which shocked me. One of his friends even approached me about it. This made me feel like he had used me emotionally and physically throughout our relationship. I also have some call recordings where he promised his mother and father that he would never leave me. Now, I’m wondering if I should share these recordings with his mother.