I’m a 25 years old woman, and my boyfriend is 28. We’ve been dating for six years now. He’s the perfect “green flag” any girl could wish for. We initially met for business, but we ended up falling in love. We’ve tried so many things together. Honestly, I’m not that talented, but he’s incredibly talented-just not lucky.
Whenever he reaches the point where the next step is success, something bad or disastrous happens to him. I’m an atheist, but I’ve been witnessing these negative things happening to him for the past six years. I wonder how such a perfect guy hasn’t achieved success, despite his hard work and being almost there countless times.
As I said, I’m an atheist, but what’s happening to him is making me question if there’s some negative force stopping him from succeeding. Some might say these struggles are part of life, but how can setbacks only happen when he’s just one step away from success?
One time, his money got stuck and never returned. Another time, a family member had a serious accident. Now he’s facing another financial loss, right when he was about to succeed. I love him so much, and it breaks my heart that, despite his hard work and perseverance, he hasn’t achieved what he deserves.
Is he truly that unlucky, or is there some negative energy at play? It just doesn’t seem normal that, each time he’s close to winning or succeeding, things fall apart. Please suggest something. I feel shattered seeing our life like this.
We work together and support each other, but in the end, something negative always happens, and we’re left struggling. Imagine rising from 0 to 99 each time, only to fall back to 0 due to a sudden negative incident. I don’t understand how situations like this keep happening-it feels like we’re stuck in a loop. Please help.