I am a married man for the last five years. I married my girlfriend after four years of being in a relationship. During our college days, our relationship started as usual, we had sexual phone calls as well. Our first physical encounter was after marriage, and only then I came to know that she is not at all interested in sex. During our phone calls, she had been faking it. Every time, she made excuses, saying she was afraid or it will be painful.
For the sake of having a child, we had sex several times in a year, which resulted in having a baby. Now, I have fallen in love with a divorced colleague, and everything is going fine, including sex. My wife knows I am in a relationship with another woman but has never talked about it.
I have never compromised with my wife except for this relationship. Now, my second partner is getting married due to family pressure. I don’t know what to do.