I need clarity. We had an arranged marriage five years ago. After trying for three continuous years, I finally got pregnant via IVF. The first three months were difficult as I struggled with body changes and adjustments. During this time, my pregnancy was diagnosed with a subchorionic hematoma, which was eventually cured with medication and bed rest. While on bed rest, I stayed at my mother’s place, unaware of the choices my husband was making in my absence.
When I returned home after my recovery, I resumed my regular household chores, believing everything was normal. One random night, I happened to check his phone unintentionally and discovered pictures and videos of another woman in a hidden folder. I didn’t confront him immediately, hoping he might come clean on his own.
After two days, I asked him to show me his phone and open the hidden folder. His reaction was defensive and angry, confirming my worst fears. He admitted the pictures and videos had been saved from WhatsApp. I was devastated and frozen in disbelief. I was pregnant with his child, and yet he had been unfaithful. He assured me it was a one-time mistake and promised it would never happen again. However, he never provided a clear explanation, and his actions continued to haunt me.
The stress and overthinking eventually led to me losing my baby at 20 weeks. Now, I’m struggling with both the trauma of my miscarriage and his betrayal. Whenever I try to bring up the incident, he gets defensive, and our conversations turn into fights without resolving anything. He insists that chatting isn’t cheating and claims it’s all in the past, but I’m unable to let it go.
I feel stuck and overwhelmed. How do I move on? Please, if anyone can help, I need guidance.
if u work and can manage urself u better give ur rltn an end. a lot of people will give u the same suggestion.but most will try to take advantage of ur situation for their advantage. I know ending the rltn isn’t a solution.bt how long can u bare the trauma of him getting along with a
other woman. better discuss this with someone close to u. think properly and decide wats good for u. better cry for a few mnths rather than crying for a life time