Five years ago, I met him on Instagram. He texted me, we started talking, and I felt an instant connection. Soon enough, we began dating. At that time, he was an unambitious, unemployed guy, and I told him that he could achieve anything he dreamed of. I promised him that I’d always be there, through his thick and thin.
I even helped him land his first job. But what did he do? He backstabbed m and cheated on me! I forgave him, because I believed in him and thought he’d change. But as he started climbing the ladder of success, he became more abusive and started flirting with multiple girls in front of me!
We even invested in a car together, paying the EMIs together. But then, his family-oh, his family-claimed ownership of the car, saying that if I kept it, it would be considered a dowry gift!
Can you believe that? The sheer audacity!
Soon after, I caught him secretly talking to other girls. His abusive behaviour and the fact that his family fully supported him were huge red flags that I should’ve noticed right from the beginning.
But I ignored them.
Last year, in July, he began to ignore me terribly. One day, I went to meet him at his parents’ house, and it turned out that they had already planned to do the most evil thing to me. They plotted to manipulate me and blame me for everything. They called me names-‘shaitan’ and other vile insults! That day, I left him.
A month later, I saw him with another girl. And then, I found out he had been seeing her and me at the same time for months! Despite the breakup, he would still call me every month, trying to meet me. Six months passed, and one day, he finally admitted he was with this girl-but only for the past 1-2 months.
By then, I already knew the truth, and I decided to leave everything to karma. I’ve healed now, but the flashbacks of the betrayal still haunt me from the past four years. The limits of humanity have been crossed!
Conclusion: In today’s world, we should not trust any guy until he’s our husband. And even then, stay cautious about who we let into our lives. Just because a guy makes you meet his family doesn’t mean he’s serious about marriage. They can all be in on it, playing their part in the game. Don’t let anyone use you as a pawn in their deceitful schemes. Always trust your instincts
what happened to u was no good. but mentioning as “any guy” wasn’t good either. not all men are the same. u can read other confessions too where women cheated men. does dat mean all the women are same?
hope u get releived from ur thoughts and have a better life