I started dating a guy over the phone. I wasn’t in India, so we didn’t meet for the first six months, but we talked 24/7. Before that, I was a model and used to do brand shoots, but after I started talking to him, he became possessive. He didn’t allow me to go out, and I stopped earning. After seven months, he told me to come to India to be with him. That was the turning point of my life.
We started living together, and at first, everything was good. But soon, our fights started – mostly about my past. He kept bringing up how many guys I had been with. Honestly, I had left everything behind for him, including my career. I don’t look the same anymore, I’ve changed the way I dress, and I cook for him daily. I even met his friends and family, and they all liked me. I was trying my best to fit in.
One day, during an argument, I yelled, and he hit me. He was really strong, and my lips started bleeding badly. I was in shock because, when we used to talk, he had promised never to even raise his voice at me. I went to my parents but didn’t tell them anything – not even that I had moved to India or was in a live-in relationship.
I went back to him because he was truly guilty and kept apologizing every day. But after a month or two, he hit me again, and one side of my face swelled up for days. I don’t know what to do. I am financially and mentally dependent on him. I can’t go back to my career because I don’t look the same anymore. I can’t tell my parents-they’re too sensitive.
I love him a lot, and I know he loves me too, but his anger issues are something I can’t handle, and he can’t control. He gets me everything I ask for, no matter how expensive. I’ve checked his phone – he’s loyal, and so am I. But his anger is ruining everything. I’m really confused about what to do. I love him, and he can’t even sleep without me.
Everyone reading this, please leave a comment…
no matter how much love there is between u guys. if he cannot control his anger for his loved one.then wats the use.wat If something serious happens. u can’t even share it to someone. u can’t share anything to ur parents. what if he hurts u even more and u have no where to go.
ur parents will be the only one’s for u
better u decide it for urself before something worse happens