Some background: I am in my 30s. My sister-in- law (my husbands biological sister) is 30 and my husband is 39. This sister-in-law has been single for her entire life, has no career, has been sitting at home for the past 8 years giving SSC CGL till the age limit expired and after 8 attempts she has not even been able to get a job. After graduation, she has been sitting at home just giving this exam. My in-laws are not putting any effort to get her married.
Now the problem is, her only work is to keep texting my husband and fitting with him the whole day to such an extent that he doesn’t even get time to spend with me. I did tell her that she constantly texting is disturbing my marital life, but she hasn’t stopped.
It seems like that girl’s only aim in life is to keep getting attention from her elder brother, has no plan to get a job nor has any plan to settle down. She is obsessed with her brother, so much so that she demanded why there is no physical touch with her brother after he got married.
I have also suggested that they start looking for matrimonial prospects for her nanad but the in-laws are avoiding the marriage option completely, saying she will work first then get married. But she is 30, getting a job now which is respectable is hard. She won’t work where jobs pay 20/30k per month. She will only work if those pay 50/60k per month.
In this circus I am suffering a lot. I wanted to have a baby but her disturbance throughout the day is problematic. Also, I did tell her and my in-laws that her disturbance whole day is being problematic but neither to my sister-in-law nor the in-laws are paying heed to my discomfort.