I’m 30, and my wife is 27. We’ve been together for 7.5 years and married for 1.5, with a 2-year-old child. Yesterday, she blindsided me with a confession during a drive. She cheated on me two weeks ago, While she was partying in another state for a mutual friend’s 30th birthday bash. I stayed behind with our kid to save on flights and make sure we have one parent at home.
Here’s the enraging part: we’ve had issues with intimacy lately mostly due to my low sex drive and severe asthma that makes even lying in bed a struggle. We didn’t marry just for the kid, She got pregnant shortly after my proposal, and we delayed the wedding due to COVID, trying to avoid complications. Now we’ve sold our house and are living with my parents while we prepare to build our dream home.
Just two months ago, we were making progress. We had a heart-to-heart and started reconnecting things were finally looking up. But then she goes and messes everything up. She was blackout drunk, and in her stupor, she decided to betray me. Now she’s claiming it was a drunken mistake, that she missed me, and all the predictable excuses.
She acknowledges she was wrong, deeply regrets it, and wants to salvage our relationship and protect our child’s life from further upheaval.
So what now? I still love her and want to make it work, but this feels like an endless cycle of pain and betrayal. How do I even begin to deal with this betrayal?
some might suggest u to leave her. some might suggest to give her a chance. but no matter what u do keep ur childs future in mind.
if u have hope that this won’t be repeating u might think about forgiving her.
bt if u feel that it wasn’t a drunken mistake then it is upto u to make a decision
Bro firstly get into Ayurveda and get back your health and go and see some good astrologer he will help you in getting back your wife