I was dating a 20-year-old girl. The first two months, we talked about ourselves. Later, we fell for each other. We didn’t ask about caste, money, etc., but we asked for time, love, care, and support. She said, “I’ll give it.”
She had a habit of following unknown boys and replying to their messages, getting flirted with by best friends-even when we were in a relationship. I told her to stop this stuff and be loyal. She stopped and apologized to me.
This almost turned into a long-distance relationship for six months. We both couldn’t leave each other; she also knew that. I told my sisters about her, and they were proud of her.
Later, we had a fight with her and her friends about something else. We didn’t talk to each other for a month, and then she called me while going somewhere.
Last November, things got worse. She went to Bangalore for family purposes, but her friends took her somewhere and drank with unknown boys. While she was drinking, one of the boys asked her about sex.
Later, she came and apologized to me. I was shocked. I didn’t know what to do at that moment. It destroyed my mental peace. I took time, forgave her, and gave her another chance.
But suddenly, on 18-02-2025, a few weeks ago, she told me, “I don’t want you,” and instead, she accepted an arranged marriage with someone who has a lot of money, owns a business, and gets new cars every year.
She manipulated her sister and brother about me. She told me that he forced her into love and blackmailed her with pictures, etc. She said, “He is a cheater. I don’t want him anymore and want to move on.”
She gave me fake promises, fake love, and fake attention. I’m the one suffering all day with her memories, but she is happy in marriage vibes.
Question: What should I do now?
move on.
getting someone like her into ur life will nly give u more pain in the future. someone who likes to get flirted. lies in relation. what happiness can u get from her.
the soon u move on and focus on ur career then more happy u will be.
a gold digger cannot make ur life happy