Hi, I’m 24F. I’ve been in a relationship for the past three years with someone I met at work. Initially, we were in different teams, but later we ended up in the same one, growing closer and eventually getting into a relationship. Despite that, we always kept things professional – no holding hands in the office or even in public.
On January 17th, our team went on a small trip to Kodaikanal, and he was part of it too. That night, most of our colleagues were drinking, and he got drunk as well. When I took him to the room, he was heavily intoxicated – he didn’t know what he was doing and tried to get physical. I resisted at first, but he’s strong, and after a point, I stopped struggling. And if I’m being honest, in that moment, I didn’t entirely hate it. The next morning, he was extremely apologetic, ashamed of himself for what had happened.
Now, some of my colleagues found out and are blowing things out of proportion, gossiping and spreading rumors. We’re both confused about how to handle this situation. We don’t know what to do next. Any advice?
what’s there to handle. if ur into a rltn and wanna get married. let the people who are thinking and gossiping know it. atleast few who have eyes on u and him will know ur together.
but if there’s no thought of getting married then u better make things right