I work in an IT company, and during the 2020 pandemic, I started working from home. I joined a gym in my hometown and, because of my athletic body, I caught some attention. There was a girl who had a crush on me from the start. She followed me on Instagram, and we started chatting. Soon, we were talking daily. She was two years older than me, so I jokingly called her “sister,” but she hated it. She made me call her by her name and started talking about more personal and sexual things.
She confessed her feelings for me, and things quickly got physical. We spent a lot of time together, and it felt intense, we were intimate several times a day. I became really attached to her and even introduced her to my family. My parents liked her and thought she could be my future wife.
But things started going downhill. She told me her parents wouldn’t agree to us, and she wasn’t allowed to go out much. Still, we found ways to meet and be together. After six months, she joined another gym, and I found out she had been involved with one of my schoolmates before we met. I asked her to stop talking to him, but she didn’t listen. When I caught her talking to him again, I started having trust issues. She also began spending more time with her new gym friends and less time with me, which made me overthink everything. We started fighting a lot.
In February this year, she told me her marriage was fixed. A few days later, she blocked me. Months passed, but in August, she started talking to me again. We met, and even though we weren’t In a relationship, we were still physical. This went on until four days before her wedding. Then, on her wedding day, she blocked me again.
I miss her, but I’m confused. Did she really love me, or was it all just about physical intimacy for her?
what’s there to be confused here man. if she had loved u why talk to others. why block u. why get married to someone else. and why again get physical with u before her wedding.
move on or else ull be left in a trauma