I’m a 44 year old female, working as an HR representative in an IT company. In 2022, we hired some graduate students, one of whom was a dark skinned guy who always spoke kindly to everyone, including me. Initially, I wasn’t very fond of him because of his skin color, but one Friday, I wore a saree and wanted to take some photos. With no one else around, I called him, and he took my pictures, offering thoughtful suggestions. That moment made me view him differently, and we started talking more after that.
One rainy day, we were both heading home when he asked if I wanted to grab coffee with him. We talked about life and a few other things. We started meeting regularly for coffee and lunch at the office. One day, when there was a network issue at the office and I had an important meeting with the US team, I was a little stressed. He offered to let me come to his place nearby to use his Wi-Fi. After my meeting, he made me a meal, and I was grateful.
When he went back to his native place for a week, I realized how much I missed him. When he returned, we resumed our regular conversations. One Friday, I went to his place under the pretext of needing to work due to Wi-Fi issues. I was exhausted and didn’t feel like working, so he suggested we watch a movie instead. As we relaxed, we ended up becoming physical, and I was impressed by how satisfying it was. Since then, once a week, we would spend time together, and I felt fulfilled in a way I hadn’t before.
Now, he’s moved to another city for a better job opportunity, and I find myself missing him deeply. I’m unsure of what to do with these feelings.
if it is just the feelings ur concerned abt then try talking to someone else. but if it is him whom ur interested in then u better change ur mind cause he has moved on.
better take a decision soon for ur own good
but someone at the age of 44 like u with such feelings. dats a shockš®