Hey I am from a Telugu bramhin family and was brought up with traditional values. I was 24 when I married a guy choosen by my parents as my husband without any questions. Since then it started I have to compromise for everything
My spouse said that because of our marriage he has some monetary problems and hopes that I can understand him and won’t ask him for any financial things. He is very helpful and supportive when we are alone but, when it involves his parents he is always like iam Wrong and won’t even give me mental support.
Sometimes I feel like I’m not worthy of anything. Sometimes I feel like I’m not worthy of anything. Sometimes I even had susidal thoughts My mom always tell me if I feel like I’m not happy, I can just leave everything here and have a good start.
Either alone or a new beginning But I’m scared for my dad’s prestige and his health. He Is a popular person who loves his name and good person as helps everyone what to do. Should I adjust and compromise or should I just leave everything.
why to adjust where u know u can’t stay happy. this isn’t about a day or weeks thing. its about a life time. when ur mom can understand why wont u dad. is prestige more important than a daughters life?
discuss this with ur parents properly before something worse happens
these things only become more and more serious as time passes by.
take a step and try to move on from him
if he really loves u, he will change his behaviour. if he doesn’t then ull have a peaceful life and can have a fresh start.
better take a decision before u have kids. u won’t be able to move on once u have kids