I’ve been carrying a heavy burden in my heart for quite some time. As a 29-year-old woman from Andhra Pradesh, married for two years, I’ve been grappling with a deep sense of loneliness and frustration in my intimate life. My husband, who is 37, has a small-sized p”nis and struggles with premature ejaculation. This has made it impossible for us to conceive, and I’ve been yearning to experience the joy of motherhood.
The most painful part is that my husband has suggested that I seek fulfillment elsewhere, even offering to support me if I were to sleep with someone else. While I appreciate his attempt to ease my pain, I cannot accept this solution. It goes against my values and the sanctity of our marriage.
Divorcing him is not an option either, as I fear the potential consequences for my family. I come from a traditional background, and I don’t want to cause them unnecessary distress.
We’ve considered IVF as a possible solution, but the thought of facing questions and judgments from our families about our fertility troubles is overwhelming. I’m afraid of the stigma and potential shame that could come with it.
ur the person dat needs to make a decision here. ur husband has a made a decision for ur happiness. u might be thinking abt ur family values.bt u arnt cheating ur hus as he is fine to see u satisfied. discuss this with someone close and try to make a decision.
people online nly try to give suggestions like have sex with them or get seperated.
I should say ur husband has big heart and open minded. He also wanted children and also ur happiness. For the sake of motherhood u need to find a person. Have a one time or temp connect with a matured and trusted one. And make ur life beautiful and evergreen for life time.