I’m 37 years old and I want to share a short story about my wife’s best friend. She’s absolutely gorgeous and seems like the perfect woman for what any man would want in bed. I first noticed her in 2020 when she was at the hospital with my wife. Since then, I couldn’t stop thinking about her and wanted to talk to her.
In June 2022, I reached out to her, and after two days, I revealed that I was her friend’s husband. To my surprise, she never told my wife about our conversations.
We hit it off, and over the next six months, we spoke and met frequently. We had some secret, special dates, but we never went beyond making out. We had plans, but she said we would take things further after her marriage.
In December 2022, she got married to one of her colleagues, and after that, we stopped texting each other.
Now, I find myself wanting to contact her again. Even though she still works with my wife, I can’t control the urge to text her.
Can you suggest how I should approach her or what steps I should take? Any advice would be appreciated.