I recently came across a post where a woman shared that her ex-lover, now married, was trying to win her back after his marriage broke down. She mentioned details about his life and family, and the striking similarities deeply triggered me because they closely align with my own story.
I am the woman in this situation labeled as someone who “allegedly” hit her mother-in-law. The truth is, I was the one who endured physical abuse at the hands of my mother-in-law and father-in-law, all while my husband stood by and watched. There is clear evidence of what truly happened, including camera footage and recordings that my husband has access to. Yet, he has chosen not to stand by me or acknowledge the truth.
We are still not divorced, and I have held onto the hope that he might realize his mistakes and make things right for the sake of our two children. But reading this post made me realize where he stands and how misplaced my hope was.
To the woman who stayed in touch with him despite knowing his circumstances. Your actions are a form of emotional cheating, and you played a part in breaking up a family. I cannot overlook the pain you’ve caused me and my children. What you’ve done is wrong morally and emotionally and I pray that you experience the same betrayal so you understand the devastation you’ve contributed to.
Families are sacred, and anyone who knowingly interferes in one carries a heavy burden of sin. I hope this serves as a reminder to others to act with integrity and empathy because the pain of broken trust is immeasurable.